Maybe this will sound stupid but you don't actually need friends if you're married or in a relationship. In my case i don't agree with my friends about almost anything. That gives us reasons and things to argue about, but there's no connection between us. I spoke one day about personal development and steve's site and felt like and idiot. No one understood what the hell i'm talking about. So i don't talk about that anymore. Is it a frienship? Probably yes. But is it good and useful frienship? Hardly
I see them as social connections and as a helpful thing when i'm stuck in the house for a few days. Then i go out with people and just socialize. Without any deeper conversations. We talk about bussines, weather, etc.
You have to be happy if you find just one friend in a lifetime.
And you should keep him forever. |