Quote:
Originally Posted by Indiana  (most alarmingly) "wants, even if they don't know they want it". That last declaration is borderline fascist to me. |
Who said that? I certainly hope you weren't referring to my point that it's better to go by what women respond to, and not what they say. Please don't accuse me of saying stuff I never said.
We roll our eyes at macho posturing even though a man’s bold strength and courage make us feel safe. We complain endlessly about the audacity of the male ego, but it’s a man’s confidence that gives us faith in his wherewithal. And while it’s fashionable to sing the praises of a sensitive guy, I believe most of us prefer men who are thick-skinned and resilient (all that stuff about not being afraid to cry…please be a little afraid).
This is what I was getting at. The woman is talking about the discrepancy between what is said, and what is responded too. Perhaps you mistakenly read more into my point than I intended. Now you know the deal.