I'm not too sure what you are really asking. If you want a bit of humor try Mark Joyner's Atomic Bombs. Start at the address below and step forwards or backwards.
Mark Joyner's Blog: Atomic Mind Bombs (Personal Development Brain Puzzle Cartoons)
If you are struggling to find what your true goals are, it is sometimes a good start to begin with the things you *don't* want. For example, you could say "I don't want to do a sales job", or "I don't want to work in an office" or "I don't want to be overweight and lazy". This will build up some momentum in your mind regarding your desires, and then you can try moving in the right direction and thinking of the things you *do* want.