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Orecle · 05-05-2009, 05:24 PM

Eiether he is cheating or he is not

If he is cheating, its eiether he is a serial cheat ( many women) in which case you would have evidence, or it is a one off (an ex) which you would probably also had evidence.

Did he use to be a player? Are you scared other women can seduce him? In which case he would not be a God-send. If he is cheating with multiple women (since your fear comes from more than one woman liking him) believe me you will find out

When it comes down to it, WHAT REASON DOES HE HAVE TO CHEAT

Physical - Is it a sexual thing

Emotional - Does he have a super deep conection with any of these women unlike he can have with you?

Mental - Is he attracted to the way any of these women think?

ANYTIME YOU ARE FEELING INSECURE ASK YOURSELF WHAT REASON DOES HE HAVE TO CHEAT? AND BE TRUTHFUL NOT FEARFUL?

05-05-2009, 05:24 PM	#17 (permalink)
Orecle Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 573	Lets be rational about this Eiether he is cheating or he is not If he is cheating, its eiether he is a serial cheat ( many women) in which case you would have evidence, or it is a one off (an ex) which you would probably also had evidence. Did he use to be a player? Are you scared other women can seduce him? In which case he would not be a God-send. If he is cheating with multiple women (since your fear comes from more than one woman liking him) believe me you will find out When it comes down to it, WHAT REASON DOES HE HAVE TO CHEAT Physical - Is it a sexual thing Emotional - Does he have a super deep conection with any of these women unlike he can have with you? Mental - Is he attracted to the way any of these women think? ANYTIME YOU ARE FEELING INSECURE ASK YOURSELF WHAT REASON DOES HE HAVE TO CHEAT? AND BE TRUTHFUL NOT FEARFUL?