*Hugs* Thanks, everyone.
Thanks, G. I'd never looked at it that way before - to be grateful for the time I had spent with her, I mean. It made me realise that letting go is perhaps the best solution. *Hugs*
Thanks for your vibes, Ssandra.
James - I like your metaphor. (I actually watched the Matrix for the first time a few nights ago - great movie.) And thanks for your response.