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Originally Posted by aelle  Not uprooting myself permanently before giving living together a good try
Not going if I didn't have anything else than him to look forward to (I love travelling so I'd be grateful for the exciting opportunity, but if it's not your case, be aware that your partner will NOT fulfill all your needs)
Not putting myself in a situation where I'd be completely dependent on my partner - have a work visa, your own sources of entertainment, your own network of friends, transportation means etc. |
thats good practical advice there!
anyway ,i detest the word 'sacrifice'
if thats the angle im going into a relationship with then i can only imagine the crap that lies ahead.
not for what he would do to me but in the name of the 'huge -life-altering-sacrifice i made' -what all "I" would be subjecting him to!
being a victim is not a good place to start.