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Originally Posted by Lana  Well, I am lately working on manifesting a relationship with the person I think is right for me... but I have some issues, even though I am clear about wanting him.
I think you are right there MillenniumMike, after all you can' t MAKE someone love you.
My story with the guy goes back some time, and I know now that he has a relationship with another girl. We couldn' t be together when I met him (lots of problems), and after a time I tried to remain friends with him even though I was totally in love. He rejected me when I spoke about being in a relationship, his latest reasons being that he cares about me as a friend and not sexually (but we have had sex some times). We live many miles apart and I always harvested the hope that circumstances would be right sometime and we would be together.
Well, I stopped fooling myself that we could remain friends. I haven't spoken to him for some days, we talked a lot as friends lately but I could' t take it any more and I stopped contacting him. Instead, I do visualizations about us being together, and other LOA stuff. And I am open to let him go, if he doesn' t contact me either. But, truth is I can' t be in the right vibrations when I think of him, due to my hurt ego and some painful thoughts that keep coming in mind.
So my question is, can you intend to manifest someone who says he likes you as a person and cares about you, when you know he is in a relationship and he has rejected you already in the past?
Oh, and t33ny and lisalisa, any news about your stories?  |
Hey Lana,
Simply yes you can, but when and only when you are completely aligned internally. If you hold conditions internally as to how, when and why the reunion MUST be, then it will be impossible to manifest, and if it does it will be a CONditional love.
From the little bit you have said about yourself, the first step in your process is understanding is it do you really love him. Then when you answer that ask yourself why do you love him. If you find that you can truthfully to yourself say you have an open and honest love for him regardless of conditions then the really next BIG step is forgiveness. Unless you can let go of the hurt and pain you feel, that is what you will continue to manifest.
This always works for the GREATER GOOD, and I wholly agree with rawxstasy and t33ny. When you have come to terms with everything inside of yourself, then you can properly intend with detachment in that you no longer NEED to have your previous love with you to be happy, and then the manifestation occurs ... when you least expect it.
Seek your internal truth and happy manifesting