Originally Posted by James81
--Whether you wanted them or not, whether you suspect foul play on her part or not, they are HERE. You can't change that fact (no matter how much you want to). Not only are they here, but they are YOURS. No amount of reasoning or complaining will change that fact.
I specifically do _not_ suspect foul play. The reason I mention foul play at all is because I've been asked that question by friends and also because I know Johnny has some quite high stats on the percentage of children where the custodial father is not the biological father.
--Knowing that fact, this leaves you with a choice: You can choose to be a part of their life or you can choose to not be a part of their life.
I see it as less black-and-white: I would probably be much more happy with fewer days, say 3 days every other week.