Originally Posted by James81
Couple points I'd like to make here:
1. First of all, you cheated on your ex twice. Granted, that probably means, as Johnny said, that you are more apt to be the type who is here to "spread his seed," but just because you are like that does not make it "ok" for you to tell your ex that you would be faithful to her and then lie to her. I'm not judging you, but I felt like Johnny was encouraging your behavior without recognizing exactly what you did that was so bad...it wasn't the sex that was bad, it was the lying aspect (as it is with any cheating situation). In the future, recognize this. Don't make a promise that you either don't intend to or can't keep.
Completely agreed, and I wasn't trying to get an "ok" (nor did I read that from Johnny's reply). What I did was definitely _not_ ok. It could probably have been left out if I had intended this for forum consumption originally.