Since sexual orientation is more of a spectrum than simply being completely hetero or gay, one could be 80% gay, but still choose to have a family and only be with women physically. It just depends on how "highly motivated" the person is. One's lifestyle isn't all about sex.
I am attracted to men and enjoy their company, but lately haven't pursued physical relationships with them because I value my health (condoms don't seem to have much of a place in the gay culture I experienced), and can still enjoy being with women to a degree, though I rarely have the same instant attraction for them that I do for men.
Last night I actually dated a young woman that had never done anything with a man, just other women. It was nice to share at least one positive experience with her, so she can be more secure in knowing there are some men out there who are worth being with. |