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Originally Posted by chrystall  My definition of love is putting the other persons need ahead of your own |
This is your problem right here.. as others have stated.. you don't really believe this or you wouldn't be having this dilemma.. always choose what's best for you.. not others.. (this is a selfish universe) meaning this definition/belief is a limited one.. abandon it and join the unlimited potential..
Here some basic questions.. maybe they'll help you sort it out..
Can you not see your relationship working at a distance?
Can you not create if you have too.. his parents and him moving?
Can you not just replace this guy with another locally, I mean really is the market that bad or you just want to force it to work?
your own writing shows you have this decision all worked out.. you are just running around intellectualizing it rather than flowing with your guidance.. your guidance has told you.. you’re comfortable in the area you’re in.. and flexibility on the relationship or creating within it/or anew is required
(ohh.. yes I'm high as a kite on the wisdom that is my favorite teacher)