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Originally Posted by Liza Red 
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I feel like I just need to break this annoying psychic barrier that prevents me from saying 'Hi'. What do I need to do? Sometimes I feel like I am the only one on the planet that can't get a boyfriend. 
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What is happening is that your mind is afraid of you doing stupid things. It is not stupid but your mind doesn't know that. It wants to keep you safe.
So, what to do? Say "thank you mind, for caring, but I'm gonna do it anyway". Then go to the guy and focus on him and not yourself. What does his energy tell you? Say hi! Give him a compliment, like: 'I love your shirt' or his hair or whatever comes up. Smile. Maybe he's shy, maybe he doesn't want contact. More probable is he will smile too and say 'thanks!'. Before you know it you'll have a conversation going.
Don't expect too much, just show interest in him. Maybe he is your future life partner, maybe a friend, maybe you'll never see him again.
Make it a game for yourself. Approach at least 3 guys every day! After a while your mind will detect you're not going to die
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