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Liza Red · 05-01-2009, 08:23 AM

Um where do I start...

I am having massive problems with approaching guys. It happened to me today.

I saw this pretty guy at the convience store. All of a sudden I got into a panic and my heart went above the 80% heart beat rate lol. When I went to approach him, something blocked in my head. Call it a "choke" if you will.

The only positives were that I maintained eye contact rather than shying away and that I knew what to say. Too bad he was too busy with his ipod.

I feel like I just need to break this annoying psychic barrier that prevents me from saying 'Hi'. What do I need to do? Sometimes I feel like I am the only one on the planet that can't get a boyfriend.

Man I sometimes feel that death is better than doing this. Arrgh.

05-01-2009, 08:23 AM	#1 (permalink)
Liza Red Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 34	Problems with the approach. Um where do I start... I am having massive problems with approaching guys. It happened to me today. I saw this pretty guy at the convience store. All of a sudden I got into a panic and my heart went above the 80% heart beat rate lol. When I went to approach him, something blocked in my head. Call it a "choke" if you will. The only positives were that I maintained eye contact rather than shying away and that I knew what to say. Too bad he was too busy with his ipod. I feel like I just need to break this annoying psychic barrier that prevents me from saying 'Hi'. What do I need to do? Sometimes I feel like I am the only one on the planet that can't get a boyfriend. Man I sometimes feel that death is better than doing this. Arrgh.