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soulbreaker · 05-01-2009, 06:59 AM

the situation:

i like this girl who's three to four years younger than i am.

she's a really sweet and cute girl, tons of fun, in fact all we do is just laugh, but she's studying abroad and will be gone for the entire summer. i'll be seeing her next semester on a weekly basis, but i'm not sure where i stand or what she's looking for in general. (don't know much about her personally, again we just have fun, that's all we really know about eachother)

my gut is saying don't wait, so i guess i should just try to ask her out on a date? if she says no move on, if she says yes then sweeeet!

i really just enjoy being friends with her too, so i'm kind of caught up.

i just hope i play my cards right regardless of the outcome.

i'm also wondering would it be abrupt to show interest now or should i wait til she gets back?

thanks for the responses.

05-01-2009, 06:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
soulbreaker Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 20	Go for it? the situation: i like this girl who's three to four years younger than i am. she's a really sweet and cute girl, tons of fun, in fact all we do is just laugh, but she's studying abroad and will be gone for the entire summer. i'll be seeing her next semester on a weekly basis, but i'm not sure where i stand or what she's looking for in general. (don't know much about her personally, again we just have fun, that's all we really know about eachother) my gut is saying don't wait, so i guess i should just try to ask her out on a date? if she says no move on, if she says yes then sweeeet! i really just enjoy being friends with her too, so i'm kind of caught up. i just hope i play my cards right regardless of the outcome. i'm also wondering would it be abrupt to show interest now or should i wait til she gets back? thanks for the responses.