1) communication skills - with yourself and with others: honesty is key.
2) social skills - look at things from the point of view of others, respect them, accept them
3) give value - contribute to the lives of others and your own life
4) receive value - because you're worth it!
5) creative perseverance - whatever your problem is, keep trying alternatives until you've solved it. Problems are challenges for you to grow.
And (as I keep telling myself too) whatever level you have in these skills, there's always room for improvement!
