[coLLege kid07]

very informative and insightful.

I too try and "get people to like me". Maybe I'll try your change on for size.

Just curious if you've gotten to this yet. When do you feel is the proper time to be nice to someone and courteous. I know I've kinda been force fed that stuff. For example, "hold doors for people, help old ladies cross the street ect."

Upon further analyzing it, I think it has something to do with caring what people think about you.