Just popping on here to voice an opinion. I speak as someone who, although completely detatched from the whole seduction community in real life, has followed its fortunes over the net for the past 10 years or so.
That out the way, lets get down to brass tacks.
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Originally Posted by MinglewoodBlues But he is trying to give some paradigm of WOMEN CRAVE SEX AS MUCH AS MEN AND ARE QUITE NORMALLY IN THE MODE TO WANT IT. This is extremely hard to believe without some evidence. |
Johnny's giving the straight dope. If you hear him out and listen to what he says about a woman's sex life - you'll note that he goes into detail about the lengths that women go to in order to hide their promiscuous activity... and how we, as men, tend to buy into this silly idea that women don't crave sex as much as we do. Therefore, I'm not surprised that you don't believe a word of what he's saying. Women have done a damn good job of hiding the truth. To be fair, they've had to.
Trust me, when you have success with women, you won't be angry at them for not having sex with you. You'll be angry at them for using YOU for sex, and then lying and coming up with excuses to never see you again!
Finally, and eventually, you'll stop being angry about it and realise that it's a wonderful problem to have!
Now, will all women be able to emancipate themselves as he suggests? No way hosea. Some women are much more secure being trapped into societal constraints, and simply can not and will not free themselves from them. Women have discovered this loophole in the sexual cartel that enables them to have sex with many guys under the cover of a relationship, so no-one thinks that she's a *gasp* SLUT. When they want a new guy, all they have to do is start a fight over nothing with their partner, blame the man for not being "good enough", and then hook up with another guy in another relationship. Some women are quite happy playing the serial monagomy game, without even realising that they're playing it, and won't want to stray from a tried-and-true formula - despite how much damage it can create in order to protect her reputation. Personally I've never thrown people I care out of my life, so it always irks me when women find excuses to do it to men.
What's important is that YOU understand what's REALLY going on, because that will preapre you for anything. I personally would never bring up seductive reasoning with women unless they're having relationship problems and they actually want to ask me to help them understand what's going on.
Ones who are happy playing their serial monagamy game are still fun in bed - but now I don't have those silly pointless "formal relationships" or the pointless arguments. The woman moves on and we have an "understanding" instead.
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The other thing is how much he refers to knowing or hooking up with people in porn or the sex industry. Does this count as everyday situations between everyday men and women? I kind of think not.
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Well I believe that they are real women doing porn in the videos, so I guess SOME women simply love to **** recreationally and have the enjoyment of being paid for the effort. That said, given some rather visual evidence, it's quite possible to believe that YES, women do love to have sex, and not just wiuth one guy. Sorry to ruin everyone's madonna-whore complex. What's more, if you're a man who enjoys having sex -- why not hook up with people who enjoy the same things?
Ever noticed how the camera is always on the woman during porn and that the guys are more or less sideline to the woman's enjoyment that gets captured on film?
I really don't think Johnny gives two shats if anyone thinks he's creepy or whatever. I'm pretty sure he's happy with his life. Personally I think it's pretty cool to have set up a life whereby you get paid for women to go down on your scholng - and enjoy it.