Originally Posted by Angela
No, what I was saying is: you're more likely to have a cheating wife, if you believe it's possible for a wife to "cheat." If you don't, then your wife will never cheat on you. It's 100% within your control.
Well, I believe everything is possible, cause it really is.
So you state than if one believes anything is not possible that thing can not happen to him?...
So, you've never ever been surprised with any discovery or unexpected fact
that you though it was impossible?
For instance, lots of people thought it was IMPOSSIBLE for the price of houses to go down (I had a lot of talks about that).... yet now they have discovered that's possible too.
Lots of people think/though it was impossible to go the Moon, discover America... etc (you know, the famous words "Who could have imagine this?")
or lots think it's impossible that his husband/wife/sons/neighbour is a serial killer... and yet it happens to them...
Lots of people discover after years of marriage things that thought to be impossible in his couple (they're bi/homosexual, they have a double life, etc.)
People that is less open-minded find many things impossible, yet they happen anyway and they happen to them too, so I don't think this make sense.
If it was that way, all the people thinking it was impossible for market prices or house to go down would have had "total control" over the marketprice of their house... and it's not true
and anyway... I guess you hold the belief "everything is possible", if you believe that you can't have 100% control of anything thinking it can not happen cause you believe everything can happen