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Originally Posted by Parthon  If it's pointless and forgettable, why not do it anyways?
Should? Why should? Because we are mortal and life is pointless? That's not a good enough reason. We are failed because we aren't all powerful and immortal? We failed in what? Where's the scoreboard, where are the points? |
Yes I corrected myself... it's not "should", I was wrong.
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Originally Posted by Parthon Give it all up, release everything. Get rid of the despair, the weight, the negativity. It's all pointless. there's freedom, lightness and peace knowing that all of thise that's going really doesn't matter in the long run. If it doesn't matter, then everything that's going on right now isn't important. It's not significant, and you can just let it be without having to change it. |
Yeah I tried, but for some reason I'm still bound to earthly things like caring what others think. I guess it will never really change, and am thus stuck in a pretty vicious circle of emotionally caring but knowing that life means ****.
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Originally Posted by Parthon As an aside: I know what happens after death. That's why I don't kill myself. It's not because I'm scared of death, it's purely because it's not time yet. I haven't learnt everything here that I need to, and I don't think I will in this life time. |
So.. what happens after death ?
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Originally Posted by Angela I think you knew that, either consciously or unconsciously, and that's why you are posting here. I think you were actually drawn to us because there is at least a small part of you that would like to make a go of it, to have a life that works. I don't think it's an accident that you came to the "wrong" place -- I would like to invite you to listen to the love and caring words that people have for you here, even the ones that seem impatient, because they are all aimed at having you feel safe and supported and playing the human game in a way that feels good. |
Yeah that's probably true since I was expecting to not kill myself that soon
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Originally Posted by Plays With Life What do you mean by "no point", BlackWigger? Can you elaborate on that a little? |
It's pretty simple. Nothing really means anything. If the human race has no real purpose, then how can your life have it ? Even worse, the whole universe, this plane of existence... what have you.
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Originally Posted by James81 Thing is, it just looks like you are here to argue and that you aren't looking to chage. When you are looking to change, you ultimately accept that you don't know everything, and that, even if a solution sounds ludicrous to you that it *might* just be the solution that works for you if you only try it.
You are going to stay exactly as you are, with no change in the way you think things, until you let go of your pride, admit that you might be wrong, and start accepting other views and advice as something you can truly, seriously try with an open mind.
Yeah, I know you said you've tried everything, but it's obvious that you haven't. And it's also obvious that you didn't approach it with the right mindset, because, based on your responses to this thread, you aren't open to anybody else's advice or opinions but your own.
Until you find a way to open up and truly try things with an open mind, you'll never change. |
It's not that I am not open minded or able to admit that I'm wrong... but it's not like I didn't know of most of the responses I got here. *sigh*