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I have been in this world close to the same amount of time that he has and I have never seen any evidence of women being so easily good to go for "RIGHT NOW" sex the way he would claim is some how normal everyday nature. I don't really buy it. Sure there are instances at times maybe. But he is trying to give some paradigm of WOMEN CRAVE SEX AS MUCH AS MEN AND ARE QUITE NORMALLY IN THE MODE TO WANT IT. This is extremely hard to believe without some evidence.
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You seem to have a limiting belief that women don’t want or like sex. I don’t have any scientific studies to show you so take my response as anecdotal and experiential.
Women like sex just as much as men and probably enjoy it more than we do, once they actually learn HOW to enjoy it. Watch a woman have 20 to 30 orgasms [or more….] in less than an hour firsthand and you’ll change your mind very quickly about women not wanting sex. Does that mean you can approach any woman in the street and tell her: “
Hey, I am good to go, and I think so are you. Let’s go to the back of my van.”
Probably not a good idea. It’s really easy for an average looking, or (even less than average looking) woman to find a guy who is willing to have sex with her. There’ll be volunteers from here to Timbuktu lining up to give her a ride. It’s much more difficult for her to find a guy she likes who is worth seeing.
Having said that, I’d add that depending on the circumstances and the type of woman, and where she is in life, you’re going to find that, yes, you can meet a woman and find yourself in bed with her 2 hours later. Heck, you may even find yourself in some club, you’re both tipsy, and you find yourself getting intimate with a woman in a bathroom 20 minutes after meeting her. It happens. Does it mean a guy can walk into a bar and replicate this every single night? No.
It happens on occasion and on those occasions, it still depends on the 3 factors I mentioned:
*The Circumstances,
*Type of woman,
*Her psyche,
It’s not all women just as it’s not all men who’d even want to do something like this.
(Btw, I suppose there is a 4th factor, which is that the guy ought to know how to approach and attract a woman. I mention the above accounts with that presupposition in mind.)
I don’t know if that answers your question or makes it more complicated for ya. Like I said, I don’t have scientific studies. Just relaying my personal experience, and observations of a lot of guys I’ve hung out with throughout the years.
Take care
Cameron