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Old 01-20-2007, 05:12 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Colm OReilly View Post
Overall it seems like you've a poor boundary function, meaning you allow people to influence you a lot. I say allow because it is a choice, even if it doesn't seem that way.
Hi Colm,

Thanks for your reply.

You are right about this ... I tend to fear that I am missing something or simply wrong. My inner antennae are very sensitive at picking up the state others are in, and I tend to listen to that more than myself. Unfortunately.

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But in that regard how much are you blaming your 'shortcomings' on your childhood and how you were brought up.
Yes, I do this at least a little bit...
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