[Michelle]

Originally Posted by Colm OReilly

Overall it seems like you've a poor boundary function, meaning you allow people to influence you a lot. I say allow because it is a choice, even if it doesn't seem that way.

Hi Colm,

Thanks for your reply.

You are right about this ... I tend to fear that I am missing something or simply wrong. My inner antennae are very sensitive at picking up the state others are in, and I tend to listen to that more than myself. Unfortunately.

But in that regard how much are you blaming your 'shortcomings' on your childhood and how you were brought up.

Yes, I do this at least a little bit...