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Originally Posted by elainevdw  I'm not asking for advice, because my boyfriend is too awesome to dump somebody over something so superficial. |
I don't feel that weight health and motivation are superficial at all, as they are manifestations of actions and character traits of that person. I wouldn't want to be with someone who did stuff like that, even if we were millionaires and retired. You've got to have some drive and inspiration or you're kinda just wasting away don't you think?
My friends and I were talking about this and I was saying that I don't like to hang out with really overweight people and they said they feel the same way but they feel shallow. However, I told them not to.
It's not shallow to put 2 & 2 together and realize that this is the result of the actions that these people take daily. Anyone can grow, it's difficult but it's not THAT hard.
However, no one is perfect. So don't be SO quick to judge either. I'm certainly not. Just saying that people who are way overweight and without motivation are different, not just physically but in essence, as those people who are in shape and motivated.