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Originally Posted by Daffy Duck  James, when you say you were putting your toxic friendship first, how did you know? I spend around 80-90% of my spare time with my girlfriend, but she still occasionally gets upset if I hang out with a particular girl once or twice a month, even though we've had many conversations about it. She says the "problem is in her own mind" and she's trying to deal with it. I'm doing my best to be supportive and fair, but it even frustrates me sometimes when I get hassled for spending three hours with someone.
I think part of the problem is that this particular girl used to have a large craving for me, though now she has moved onto someone else. I'm glad she did because it should make our friendship "easier" in a sense. |
I'm not so sure it was the AMOUNT of time spent, as it was the realization that I had my friend on a higher level of importance that my girlfriends.
The moment I realized it was a night that me and my ex-wife (when she was my girlfriend) had a huge fight about one of those issues that had nothing to do with what she was angry about.
When the truth came out, she told me she was mad because I was standing there talking to her and my friend came in and I stopped mid-sentence with my ex to go talk to HER.