Valid point. It's HARDWIRED into men to be more attracted to looks. I really don't see why people supress this. Sure it's shallow if it's THE ONLY THING, but there's no reason that you can't be both physicaly attractive and personality wise. There's no right or wrong about it, it's just how it is. There's so many people on this planet, there's no reason you can't have high standards. And likes stated, everyone has different 'high standards'. Not everyone wants a super model.
There are special cases, sure, but we're not talking about that, we're saying just a girlfriend, not a wife or long term friend/mate. And it's not like it's a white or black thing, it would be overtime. You don't stop showering and become a slob and gain 30 lbs in a few days.
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