To an extent I wouldn't mind, but 30lbs of fat is a lot. If somebody gains that much, there's usually a reason behind it. Attitude is imortant too, if they don't care about themselves, then I wouldn't be with them in the first place. IF they stopped caring about themselves, then it's different.
If they totally changed into a slob like that, and it wasn't just an understandable issue, then yes, see ya later. I take care of myself and I expect my mate to do that same. I have high standards, and I feel your appearence somewhat refelcts your personality.
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