I forgot to answer the other part... LOL.
I always want to look good for my SO, but at the same time expect him to find me attractive no matter what. How wishy washy and stereotypically female minded does that sound. LMAO. Of course, the thought of letting myself go and forcing him to deal with whatever happens no matter what would never cross my mind. So, I expect him to find me attractive no matter what because I would never let myself go unless there was something else going on that was completely outside of him. And if he loves me will help me with that, and not just hound me about weight.
I would NEVER wake up before him to make myself pretty, or even wear make-up every day to please him, or any of that. I wear PJ's all the time. I am always home, and I don't see the point in wearing uncomfortable clothes in my own house. He married me knowing my complete addiction to PJ pants and knowing that I don't do make-up except on special occasions, and is used to me being exactly that way. So, if he all of a sudden wanted me to change that I would be really put off by it.
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