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Originally Posted by real_username  Ok.. this has seen some time now. I need to share what has happened since...
I have been out with friends every single moment I could share. Have tried to have fun, go out.... meet other girls (with success, but I cannot make myself want them :-(), When she's not around I miss her so bad.
Again - I cannot sleep (barely sleep 2-3 hours per couple of nights), work suffers great from that, even though I made myself to work harder - it's not good enough... cuz I make advertisements for TV, and this is something I need creativity for. Now it seems lost.
Dunno what else to share.... my sexuality is a disaster - don't/can't feel attracted to any other girl, cannot masturbate (yes.... ), and sexual pressure is so high too.
Looks like I'm going mad.... Tried so many things. With no/almost no result!
Yours,
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I had such a bad break up and this may sound stupid and shallow but i helps it also helped a friend of mine whose finance dumped him:
keep in motion. Work out, take long walks, ...
don't worry about not being able to feel sexual or attracted to other women - just realize you're not in a place to do that now - just keep in motion . you can't be depressed and in motion at the same time.
I would walk home -even though it took two hours....
I would come home and just do push ups until i couldn't do them anymore and fall asleep - i barely ate.... but eventually i worked through it.
I had that same pain I know there's nothing like it in the world - and the strange thing is that all of my senses were so vivid, yet i was detached from life at the same time.
also - a good pain breaker is travel - can you afford a vacation now? Go to someplace shockingly different -India or something -
These things worked for me. that's all i know.