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Old 04-19-2009, 06:59 PM   #2 (permalink)
Gasokai
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Hi there!

Its others to tell others what to do and I am not the succesful person who knows with experience all this. BUT! One thing I know; What you need to do when you are confused? Just calm down, and listen to yourself!

As I understand that you are currently hearing many voices from within you, you need to sit down, and recognise where those "voices" are coming from. Take a deep breath and recognise what sprouts the "need" to do something.

Are those expectations of others?
Are your emotions preventing or driving you?
Or is it truly something you want to do!?

You should spend some without taking any outside pressure and think these things before making big decisions, espcesially if you wish to hear your own voice. If you already know-know what you want to do, then its easy: Write down your goal, split it into doable tasks and do it! Having your goals or dreams on the paper often makes it easier to take action when needed.

Good luck to you!
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