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Originally Posted by CroMagna  Johnny has never been wrong. |
ONCE I thought I was wrong, but it turned out I was mistaken.
Seriously, thanks for the vote of confidence, but I have to admit I have been wrong PLENTY of times, while working out the kinks in my philosophy!
That said, I'm certain I've not been wrong in anything I've written on THIS forum!
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Originally Posted by CroMagna Only thing I'm surprised about is that a girl would not count a 'friend with benefits' in her number of sexual partners. |
When most women count their sexual partners, most-often they discount any they consider 'insignificant' (ie, not substantial enough to announce publicly, and therefore having no impact on her 'marketability').
Woman: "I haven't had sex in so long...."
Man: "What about that guy you went home with last week?"
Woman: "Oh, him? That didn't count, he didn't have any condoms so we just had oral"
"That didn't count" is an incredibly powerful and common evasion - one which SHOULD NOT BE NECESSARY because A) women should have as many partners as they wish, and B) they should NEVER be expected to report on it to anyone.
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Originally Posted by CroMagna Then she's basically lying! That makes that whole thing a joke. |
The notion that HER COUNTING has anything to do with anyone other than herself is a joke, certainly!
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Originally Posted by CroMagna I will throw in this caveat: instead of assuring the girl that you won't count in the list of sexual partners, you could offer to be the one person who knows her real number and doesn't care. |
CroMagna, you've somehow taken something from my message which was never there:
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| When she considers the number of guys she'll admit to having 'been with' - SHE WON'T 'COUNT' YOU - You're her FRIEND! |
I never suggested anyone would need to assure her of this, nor even bring it up at all!
It is something she will intuitively understand,
IF she is the sort who'd be concerned about such things in the first place.
Instead of being "the one who knows her real number and doesn't care",
simply never ask her for any number, and non-judgmentally accept whatever number she volunteers (if she ever does!).
It's NEVER anyone's business but hers, anyway, (if she even bothers to keep track) and I always encourage women NOT to bother counting at all, since it can not EVER help her in any way.
Johnny Soporno
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