Allow the Mind to do what the Mind does; ie. gather, store, sort, label and classify information. Then let the Heart take that information and with the aid of Spirit make the decision.
Throughout my youth I let my Heart decide on issues of love and romance regardless of what my Mind told me. The result was a string of failed relationships.
The moment I actually took notice of what my mind was telling me and applied my Heart to it, I met the woman I've been married to for fifteen years.
Listen to what your Mind tells you, but decide with your Heart.
Oh... and BTW... Notice I didn't put "Loins" in there at all.