Originally Posted by Zas
If your focus is on creating the best superficial experience for yourself, that's much different than creating a great and lasting and loving relationship.
Thank you Zas. You are right. Ive been focusing on what I want.
I should shift my focus on what I want to give.
In general Im a pretty giving person, but in terms of IM, everything I stated in the post, was about me getting something, and not about giving. Which is what I will focus on once I have a relationship. So, I mght as well start now.
Thanks for helping me see that!!
Thank you. Thats a beautiful quote- whose is it?