I think when the 'seduction community' started it was geared more towards esoteric 'secret' techniques and NLP style manipulation. I could see wanting to hide that, especially if you have the notion that it's super effective. And some of that stuff is pretty weird too.
As the community is maturing it's moving more towards general self-improvement and 'natural game' (i.e., being a guy who's naturally attractive to women) teachings, though there's still a lot of the other stuff.
There's really nothing to be ashamed about admitting you want to improve yourself to get girls. I'd like to see the community become mainstream to the point where it's generally accepted that if a guy feels the need he can resort to it to learn how to get women. The guy would be happier, the world would have a more well-adjusted person in it, and women would have another attractive guy around who they'd naturally want to be with. It's win-win.....-win |