Alot of great advice going on for you Tiffylove. I agree with all that is being put forward. If you notice, you are working through your struggle, bit by bit. I think that is what us females do when we become overwhelmed. We voice our frustrations out in the open to help us work through them.
I know you have been dealing with your boyfriends problem of depression for a bit from your other threads. They (men) need to work on their problems by themselves. They go into their cave mode and struggle with what ever is their problem. You as his loving girlfriend has to accept this and just let him figure his own problem out. Tell him, when and if he needs to talk, you will be there, and thats it. You go on with your daily life. Its hard for us females not to take on the role to nurture the world and all its problems before 9:30 in the morning. So its going to take some getting used to letting that go.
Your problems are reoccurring because you haven't learned from them yet and haven't moved on to the solution.
If you're not happy in your employment and you have an inkling of a concept that could possibly turn into self employment, go for it. Don't go full hog and quit your current employment yet, get things set up for yourself, market yourself first, wean yourself off of your other job while you spend more time on your self employment(making money though) until it comes time for you to cut all ties. It is doable and very fullfilling. I did it and never, never regretted it for one moment.
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