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Originally Posted by Angela  The Do= one is nebulous, though -- it sounds more like a goal than an action. What specific, measurable actions could you take towards reaching those goals that would make a difference in your life RIGHT NOW? |
Maybe I am being blind but honestly I can't seem to think of one damn thing I could do to move my life in the direction I want it. Quit my job maybe, that will light a fire under my butt to actually do something else. I'll have to figure things out real quick, because right now I know what I love and I know my passion. Thats about it.
I have a silent retreat starting friday, thats the action I will be taking to move my life forward.
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Originally Posted by Angela That's his choice, because it's about him. |
Boy did I need to hear that. Ironically its when I start taking his actions personal that it hurts and effects me. I start thinking "if he really wanted to be with me...., if he really loved me...., if i was this way or that way..." Could it be it has nothing to do with me and its just all about him?? hmmmm, if I could fully agree with this, it would take a lot of pain away real quick.
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Originally Posted by Dot Well, "giving up" might not be a bad idea. Seriously. I'm not talking about quitting. But giving up all the attachments to things you think are so important. Because at the end of the day, 99% of everything you think is important is - not important. |
I would love to! Not sure I would know how to but I would sure love to.
How do you just not care when you have a child, a relationship, a job, etc..?
I would sure love to that.