Let her use it! Anything short of that is setting up resistance to her - which, in turn, will make her stronger. By you resisting her, it's you - not her - who is making the situation more real.
And help her along! Call her the name all the time. Get all your friends to call her that name, too. Have fun with it. Maybe change your name. Have all your friends change their names.
See where we're going with this... : )
With no resistance, all will right itself in the blink of an eye.
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