The name thing is irritating, but I think it's just a symptom -- I think you are "thin-slicing" the situation and your unconscious mind is letting you know there's something to be alert to and uncomfortable about. Listen to that, because it sounds to me like authentic .... I hesitate to use the term, but: fear. This person sounds like she could be an authentic threat, is that what your thin-slicing is giving you? Am I wrong about that?
Whatever the message that your discomfort is trying to get through to you, pay attention and be sure to *get* it -- don't dismiss it as "probably no big deal.'
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