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Old 04-13-2009, 12:50 AM   #2 (permalink)
nocturne
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if by pick up you mean interacting with women and taking a romantic and/or sexual interest in them, its for you if you are a straight male. its something that existed before these companies started up.

as for how do you know which one of the companies out there has a style that would work for you, the answer is that you should try them and find whichever one suits you best.

you can google for different companies but honestly let me just give you a simple structure

1. approach
2. banter (playful conversation)
3. deeper conversation
4. show interest/get the contact

show your own personality. Just figure out what words and style comes naturally to you.

The mystery method is basically a more complicated structure of exactly what I just told you, adjusted to mystery's own personality. What I just told you is just the flow of any social interactoin. You walk over, you say hello, you banter, you have deeper conversation, and if you are interested in setting something up with the person again you do so. It's not an exact science its an art that you can do almost any way you want.

My suggestion is to step over, talk to the girl, put your best impression forward that you could at the time, and then if she is friendly ask her out / get the contact information. Set up another meeting. Putting your best foot foward, and then letting the girl decide if she wants to get with you or not is basically all you can do.

Last edited by nocturne; 04-13-2009 at 01:02 AM.
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