Hey guys,
i started looking at pick up material about a year and half ago now. I came across a seduction forum and found it to be helpful. I tried out what i'd learnt within a couple of months of finding the site and carried on approaching for a good few months but didn't make much progress(few phone numbers and saw about two girls over 6months or so).
Over the last 6 months or so i've been distracted and have been focusing more on my passion (performing music) which i am aiming to make a career out of.
The problem is i haven't been balancing my life out and i really want to have healthy (sexual and eventually long term) relationships. I'm turning 18 soon and am still a virgin (i'm not fussed about that tbh) and want to have fun and an amazing social life when i go to uni.
I really don't care about this for the ego, for what my peers think or just to lose my virginity, i want to do it for the fun side of it and to have some great experiences with the opposite sex. Some of the best times in my life have been when i've been seeing a girl and we're both in to each other, I'm sure you all have your stories and experiences as well =).
Anyway, the main question is, is there any form of pick up/guru which is more based on personality but still layed out like the step by step way the mystery method is?. Or should i just follow the mystery method and let my personality show through at the same time? Or if you can't answer any of these and have been down this line yourself, what worked for you?
Any advice is appreciated and sorry for the long post
Thanks again
