Originally Posted by FirstLife
You hit the nail on the head.
That's why I tend to think that I am probably not ideal for romantic relationships, and romantic relationships are not ideal for me
So what's the problem then? Strike romantic relationships from your 'to do' list and you'll have a happy life.
Or, you do want a romantic relationship? Well better reconsider some beliefs you have in this area, then. My recommendations: women don't like to be a goal on your list. They're not assets, or results in your personal development or objects of social science (well actually, they are the latter, but they don't want to be considered that way. Neither do you or I.) They're human beings. Why not just enjoy their company, and forget the relationship for now? Take a break...