Originally Posted by aelle
Gotcha. But you know, empirical research gives you trends, how most members of a group behaves. In real life this is irrelevant: you're not looking to settle down with the majority of "first class" women, you just want one. Go look for the exceptions.
Agreed. But is the time and money I invest in looking for these exceptions worth it? I feel that if I go looking for them, I might compromise my other areas of life (interests, activities, career, health, etc.)