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Old 04-10-2009, 12:05 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by James81 View Post
You cannot sit around telling yourself that you are going to fail and then magically expect success.
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Your looks have absolutely jack to do with why you are unsuccessful with women. It has everything to do with your attitudes, lack of self-confidence, and negative beliefs.
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This is not about attitudes or beliefs but results of empirical research.

Howevermuch confident you are, there are so many other rules in play that may sound superficial but are what drives the world: money, physical strength, etc.

I don't want to make any assumptions about where you are getting at but before anything let me tell you that I also explored seduction/pick up methods in my late teens, and many of my few relationships started thanks to those.

What I conclude, however, is that no seduction method can ever even out your pre-conditions in the long term, unless you consciously work on those pre-conditions (money, strength, etc.)
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