In response to the original post. Having lived in Thailand for the last 2 years and travelling to some neighboring countries I have witnessed some things I wished I hadn't but when i look at the bigger picture of my life I see that the things I have seen only further my life education and I know I might not be able to help everyone but I know I can help some.
I don't think you should feel guilty, helpless or upset about spending money on yourself but instead do what you think is right from within or give what you can afford, there is nothing more that you can do. If you feel you want to go to these places and help out maybe that's the best thing you can do but if you choose to stay in the States that's ok too. It's only normal human nature to feel the way you do and being the caring person that you are and having seen what you have seen, this is part of your education and now it's up to you to decide on what level you can help and feel comfort that you are doing your bit.
John
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