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Originally Posted by Johnny Soporno  Please go back and read the OP  It is an enabling document, and if the relationships you have with your female friends are legitimate friendships, AND you come to accept the model I've described here, then there is an extremely high likelihood of a very positive result, and effectively no chance for there to be a negative one.
Johnny Soporno
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I re-read your post today, and I just wanted to let you know that, upon a second reading, I think I understand more what you were saying. I was taking something out of context of the whole post (which I think I get now) and arguing from the wrong frame of reference (I was thinking more along the lines of those guys who are friendzoned).
So, I wanted to apologize and say that I think I get what you are saying now.
I'm still not so sure that this advice can be broadstroked to all guys, because I think in order for this to work you need to have some basic things in order:
1. Have self-confidence
2. Be in the right frame (lighthearted and fun)
3. Have other options available to you
And, let's face it, not everybody who reads this post will have those things in order.