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Old 04-07-2009, 07:38 AM   #21 (permalink)
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My guess with no objective evidence: This girl was bossed around and had every decision made for her by her parents and teachers. When she tried to make her own decisions her parents would get angry, pouty, or withdrawn. To avoid punishment and threat she learned to differ decision making to others, to make decisions now gives her anxiety to protect her from being attacked. This behavior was adaptive and useful as a child but as an adult it is maladaptive.
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