Neblasian
Just my opinion:
You mentioned in your post "Well I don't like people wasting my time or carrying me around the world so i decided tommorow to gave her the ultimatum. " Call me when your willing to talk."
I think that's your best bet. Give her a call asking her to call you at home when she wants to talk BUT do not get in touch with call her again after that call.
It appears she may be playing with you and actually "testing" you to see if you're worthy of her. There is a good chance she may get in touch with you by other means so you can chase her. If she e-mails, txt msg or calls you at work, ask her if she can call you at home (if that was your original message).
Once she does call be polite but get to the point of the converation. Remember she's calling you because she's ready to talk. If she does have a b/f tell her you hope she's happy and truly mean it and move on. Let her know If things don't work out she has your number.
I think this approach you are asking for and deserving of her respect.
The next time you see her you can hold you head high and be proud of the fact you didn't get caught up in the game of I've got a secret.
Good Luck
Lynn
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