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Originally Posted by James81  If you are meeting with success with your method, then it's because you are exhibiting other behaviors that those women find attractive. |
Well... Duh!
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Originally Posted by James81 The real truth behind it is this...be who you are. Don't choose to be friends with a woman that you find yourself desiring to sleep with. If you want to sleep with her, then escalate it toward a sexual relationship, NOT a friendship. I don't know about you, but when I choose to be friends with a girl, I immediately remove the idea of having sex with her from my mind. She becomes on of those people with whom I seek friendship. When I want to have sex with a woman, I escalate the situation towards a sexual relationship and take the risk like a man. |
This a very common choice people make, but its not a choice you have to make. Have you ever, or do you know some who has had sex with a friend, and still have great friendship? I have, and that's why I see holes in what you just wrote, It just doesn't align with what I've experienced.
However, I see a very valid message. If you reworded it to:
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Originally Posted by Yynatago The real truth behind it is this...be who you are. Don't pretend to just be friends with a woman that you find yourself desiring to sleep with. If you just want to sleep with her, then escalate it toward a sexual relationship, NOT a friendship... |
This I can agree with, because the message is more about being congruent with your intention
As a side note, If you want to sleep with a women, and be friends too, its easier to do the sleeping first, then build the friendship later
Regards,
Yynatago