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Therefore most women won't chance beginning a sexual relationship where there is currently a solid friendship.
THEREFORE IT IS ESSENTIAL that the girl understands she absolutely won't lose your friendship either way, and that
YOU ARE OFFERING HER SOMETHING - NOT ASKING FOR ANYTHING!
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Let me get this straight...these are the options you are offering her:
1. You can have sex with me, and we can remain friends.
2. You can choose NOT to have sex with me, and we can still remain friends.
Why on God's green earth would an attractive woman, who has access to any number of guys at any moment that she could have sex with, choose to risk bringing issues into her friendship with you by having sex with you?
Let's get real here...if you are friends with a woman that you want to sleep with, then you need to make the decision within yourself that you are going to put it on the line. Risk something. Don't use your friendship as leverage to get her to sleep with you, but realize that if you are wanting to sleep with your "friend" then you probably don't see her as just a friend, and being "friends" with the women you want to sleep with is only taxing of YOUR time (a waste of time if you ask me) and YOUR emotional health (women tend to "vent" to their "friends").