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rak · 04-03-2009, 07:03 AM

The war of states against states, races versus races the never ending debates of religions…

What they are trying to prove?

That they are RIGHT!!!

Many lives, efforts and wealth that been sacrificed in order to prove that they are RIGHT, but why this people want to prove that they are the RIGHT one?

To achieve PEACE? Where is the peace after war?

To achieve ENLIGHTENMENT? Where is ENLIGHTENMENT after the debates?

To achieve EQUALITY? Where is the EQUALITY after the long road of rallies?

To achieve FREEDOM? Where is the MORALITY after fighting for FREEDOM?

Of course I believe there is a time in life that we need to fight fire against fire but I think that is only SOMETIMES or might be good if we don’t choose that option anymore.

I think being kind is the starting evolution of every good –thing that we want to have in our planet. We are condition by our society that if you become KIND, people in this world will just walk over your head or by pass you. We frame our mind that there is no POWER in KINDNESS, there is no IMPACT to change or to move other person.

Is that true? If just Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Theresa and Jose Rizal can rise up from their grave and disagree to that… I believe they will.

KINDNESS is more effective than RIGHTEOUNESS if we want synergy, peace and love to our life.

Yes I agree that its easy to say than done, even myself have own difficulties on following this principle because like most of the people I was also condition by the old beliefs of you must FIGHT FOR RIGHT rather than give LOVE to those whom are not in the RIGHT TRACK. Still we must give it a try, remember that everything start to nothing and consistency will strengthen our every act until it became incurable habit.

We all have our own favorite story of heroes who fought for peace and good then they have what they wanted but it seems that its very temporary and easy to forget and hard to remember what they’ve done before. While those who use KINDNESS to achieve peace, freedom and morality like Gandhi, Mother Theresa and Jose Rizal their heroism, love and sacrifice is like a work of art that will be forever marked in our heart.

Like what Wayne Dyer said (one of my top influencer in writing and speaking)

“Choose KINDNESS rather than being RIGHT”

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rak Banned Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Currently working in KSA, Born in Philippines Posts: 183	Choose to be KIND rather than being RIGHT The war of states against states, races versus races the never ending debates of religions… What they are trying to prove? That they are RIGHT!!! Many lives, efforts and wealth that been sacrificed in order to prove that they are RIGHT, but why this people want to prove that they are the RIGHT one? To achieve PEACE? Where is the peace after war? To achieve ENLIGHTENMENT? Where is ENLIGHTENMENT after the debates? To achieve EQUALITY? Where is the EQUALITY after the long road of rallies? To achieve FREEDOM? Where is the MORALITY after fighting for FREEDOM? Of course I believe there is a time in life that we need to fight fire against fire but I think that is only SOMETIMES or might be good if we don’t choose that option anymore. I think being kind is the starting evolution of every good –thing that we want to have in our planet. We are condition by our society that if you become KIND, people in this world will just walk over your head or by pass you. We frame our mind that there is no POWER in KINDNESS, there is no IMPACT to change or to move other person. Is that true? If just Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Theresa and Jose Rizal can rise up from their grave and disagree to that… I believe they will. KINDNESS is more effective than RIGHTEOUNESS if we want synergy, peace and love to our life. Yes I agree that its easy to say than done, even myself have own difficulties on following this principle because like most of the people I was also condition by the old beliefs of you must FIGHT FOR RIGHT rather than give LOVE to those whom are not in the RIGHT TRACK. Still we must give it a try, remember that everything start to nothing and consistency will strengthen our every act until it became incurable habit. We all have our own favorite story of heroes who fought for peace and good then they have what they wanted but it seems that its very temporary and easy to forget and hard to remember what they’ve done before. While those who use KINDNESS to achieve peace, freedom and morality like Gandhi, Mother Theresa and Jose Rizal their heroism, love and sacrifice is like a work of art that will be forever marked in our heart. Like what Wayne Dyer said (one of my top influencer in writing and speaking) “Choose KINDNESS rather than being RIGHT”