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Originally Posted by Stephen0001  And after two or three days of working really hard, I say " well if it's not a perfect plan.. then why the hell does it matter anyway? " and I give up. |
I didn't quite understand this line. What do you mean by perfect?
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Originally Posted by Stephen0001 .. and I just wish I would finally change. |
How exactly do you want to change? I mean, is there some specific thing about your life, your daily experience, or yourself that you want to change? Is there some specific goal you're trying to aim for, but not finding the motivation to get it kicked into gear?
I've had setbacks and frustrations when I've tried to change things. But this doesn't sound like difficulty changing something. You didn't mention wanting to change anything. Could it be that you think you Should be changing something, but you don't know what it is?
It can be tough to change if you don't know what you're trying to change!
Or, could it be that you wish you had some specific goal, something to give you a sense of purpose, to guide your decisions? I've been in that situation before.
Also, if there IS something specific that you want to change, but you don't have a specific thing that you want to change it TO - that can be immobilizing. I mean that has made me feel rather "stuck" before. If that's the situation you're in, what I've done there is to just pick something, anything, just to get it changed. Not because it's the right or the best thing to change to - but just to see what it's like when I get there, so that I can then decide from that position whether I want to stay or try one of the other options.