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Originally Posted by Velvet  This probably isn't very productive, spiritual, or practical, but your boyfriend sounds like a dick. If I were you, I'd dump him, maybe go lose some weight for your own health and well-being and self-esteem, and then when he comes crawling back tell him you only want to date guys who accept you as you are.
As the great Wayne/Jayne County sang, "If you don't want to ************ me, baby, then ************ off!" |
I agree with this. If your weight is why he isn't attracted to you, then he doesn't love you and you should move on. If you want to lose weight, do it for YOU, not for him. I have gained and lost and gained and lost and I am FAR from a super model, or even a not so super model, but my husband finds me beautiful no matter what because HE LOVES ME. That is what you deserve. Don't waste your time trying to please a man that isn't focusing on the right things to begin with. I could see if maybe you gained 300 lbs and had such a grossly massive change to your appearance that you don't look like the same person at all, then not being attracted to you anymore is to be expected, but somehow I doubt that's the case.
JMHO.
